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Is Quitting the Key to Professional Success?

Burg, Michael MD

doi: 10.1097/01.EEM.0000695640.78433.72
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    Quitting has been important to my success. Scrutinizing your own professional journey may reveal a few key quits that also helped you along the way.

    Our paths are strewn with seemingly false starts and missteps. Those career wobbles can be great, educational, in fact, teaching us what we want and what we really don't.

    My flight-of-the-bumblebee career journey has imparted three pearls of wisdom I'd like to share.

    • All knowledge and experience are useful.
    • Quitting at the right time is valuable.
    • Enjoying the journey is paramount.
    • And, a bonus, say yes to good things.

    Everything is Useful

    As a serial college dropout, I started and stopped at least three majors before earning a biology degree and moving on to medical school. The gap between high school graduation and reentry into college as a 25-year-old freshman was filled with founding and growing a booking agency for bands, working at various jobs too numerous to list, traveling extensively in Europe, and hitchhiking across the United States. My land speed record for leaving a job was eight hours. That's as in, get the uniform with my name on it, work a full day, and then quit. Providing service at a service station just wasn't for me. During this same eight-year start-and-stop-apalooza, I dabbled in college study of psychology, communications, and business.

    I vividly remember that during this time my Jewish father's hair went from black to white. He yelled a lot too. “Think!” and “Finish what you started!” were loud themes. Maybe he was concerned that his firstborn son was wasting his life. You too will likely encounter important people who will freely offer that your decisions to go AWOL are frankly nuts.

    But that's wrong. Learning happens during transitions. I discovered that moving furniture and waiting tables and psychology weren't for me, fun at the time and transiently interesting but ultimately not my thing. Along the way, one acquires knowledge, abilities, and wisdom. I got plenty of practice writing, tutoring, advising, and working as a team member. My entrepreneurial and business skills got a boost too. I could go on and on.

    All of this came my way as I started and stopped various ventures. All would serve me well later in life. Even now I can still line-load and drive a bobtail truck. Thank you, King Van and Storage. Who knew that furiously multitasking in a variety of fancy restaurant kitchens would serve me well during hectic emergency department shifts when I'm repeatedly interrupted and asked to manage crisis after crisis.

    That's the point. Had I not started and stopped so many career adventures, I never would have gained the skills I needed to thrive. For me, that testing, trying, succeeding, and failing were useful. Quitting after I'd tried, gained experience, and tired of an experience was key to moving ahead strongly later.

    Quitting at the Right Time

    Charlie, a King Van and Storage big rig driver, was my hero when I worked moving furniture as a strapping 19-year-old. In spite of the fact that Charlie weighed 300-plus pounds and would turn a sickly, slightly-greenish hue each day after gobbling his fat-laden lunch (gall bladder disease, I think now), that good ol' boy could load trucks at lightning speed. Plus he was an excellent driver, accident-free, indefatigable.

    “Learn to drive like me. You'll make $100,000 a year,” Charlie urged. This was in 1974, very seductive to a kid working for $7.50 an hour. Never mind that Charlie was never home, owed the IRS a truckload of cash, and was probably headed for an early grave. Still, I was tempted. I did a three-week road trip with Charlie and practiced some driving skills (all illegally), but in the end never committed to acquiring a commercial driving license. I soon left King Van and Storage and never returned. Good move, it turned out. Had I truly started making big money as a too-young-to-legally-drink youth, I might have been seduced into staying for years, maybe even forever. In retrospect, this would have been a disaster. I got out just in time.

    “The time to quit is before you wish you had,” wrote Kimberly K. Jones in her novel Sand Dollar Summer.

    Enjoying the Journey

    I prefer journeys to endpoints. Really, there are no endpoints. It's all a journey. One door closes, another opens. We do reach the end of certain things (even I finally graduated from college), but these finales are just conduits to the next set of experiences coming our way.

    “Life isn't meant to be lived perfectly but merely to be lived—boldly, wildly, beautifully, uncertainly, imperfectly, magically lived,” wrote Mandy Hale in The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass.

    All those descriptors sing to me. Who wouldn't want to be magically bold, wild, beautiful, uncertain, and imperfect? Bold's opposite is timid; you choose. Tame is the antonym of wild. Which looks better on you? Beautiful versus ugly? That's easy. Even uncertainty's obverse is mind-numbing. Who wants to be certain all the time? Besides can you ever be certain all the time? Sounds like a descent into staid, boring, dull, sober mush. Where's the spark in that?

    Quitting, from time to time, has to be part of the journey. If every day is the same as the last, forever and ever until the end, when does bold, wild, beautiful, uncertain, imperfect, and magical living happen? Moving on, risk-taking, deviating from the straight and narrow (call it what you will) brings all that to you. To paraphrase motivational speaker Erick Rheam, the safety net, that is, your next great venture, does not appear until you leap off the cliff, and that requires some degree of letting go of the known, AKA quitting.

    Say Yes

    Long ago, I showed my then-wife this little ad one evening. It read, “Are you a culturally sensitive academic emergency physician interested in moving to the Netherlands to help establish emergency medicine as a specialty?” At the time, I was two years into a new faculty position in emergency medicine. I had published next to nothing, was just getting established, and had absolutely no right to request a sabbatical. I did consider myself culturally sensitive, though, so that was one small point in my favor. “I don't think I'm right for this, and besides I'll never be granted the necessary time off,” I mused. “Don't apply,” she said. “You'll never get it.”

    Flash forward to the next morning. I can't say no to myself. I'll apply for the post. Let the Dutch say nee if I'm not the right man for the job.

    I applied, got the call, flew with the fam to Amsterdam, interviewed for a week, and got the gig! Then I came home, and you guessed it—I quit! I quit my secure, new path to academic success in emergency medicine in the United States. Actually, I carefully negotiated a sabbatical with my grim-faced boss and promised to return. This failure on my part, to take a complete burn-the-boat approach to this wild new opportunity is one of my few regrets in life.

    Saying ja to a good, even great, thing allowed me the opportunity to be the first emergency physician in the Netherlands, to help found emergency medicine as a specialty in that country, to positively affect the Dutch health care delivery system, to spark medical writing and research in a new specialty, and on and on. All I had to do was quit and say yes to good things.

    The writer Edward Abbey wrote, “May your trails be crooked, winding, lonesome, dangerous, leading to the most amazing view.” Maybe the well-timed, well-considered, well-played, and joyous “I quit” can set you on your way to an amazing view.

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    Dr. Burgis an academic emergency physician in California. Follow him on Twitter@BurgMichael.

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