Paulette Mhawech-Fauceglia, MD
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Forever young: A female physician's perspective
One morning seeing my reflection in the mirror
Few wrinkles here, and few there
Few grey hairs, and maybe more there
I stopped and thought, “God, where has the time gone?”
Is that possible? How did it all happen?
I started to panic, and the reality of getting old starts creeping in
Is this what “middle-aged” is all about?
Is it time to take more measures in turning back the hands of time?
Looking around in the crowd, old faces were rare to find
Most women looked young, yet stoic
Neither happy nor sad
What is happiness? Merely to look forever young?
Will our wrinkles be a thing of the past, nature once again defied?
I always thought middle-age would be a time of harvest
The fruits of our labor, our sacrifice
Instead in this plastic age, we ought to focus on
Few wrinkles here and few there
Few grey hairs and maybe more there
Oh God, when will this madness stop?
Forgetting what really matters, what makes us human:
To age gracefully, to be proud of our wrinkles, our grey hairs and our human expressions?
To be healthy, proud of our own achievements, and surrounded by loved ones?
To age gracefully I will, to be happy and content with what has been done
I shall live forever young
PAULETTE MHAWECH-FAUCEGLIA, MD, is Professor of Pathology at the University of Southern California.